Mediation
Mediation:
a simple and effective solution to conflicts
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Goal
The purpose of mediation is to find solutions by maximizing the participants' involvement, collaboration, and active participation in the process, since they are always in the best position to develop a plan that meets their needs and can be implemented in their daily lives. To do so, our accredited mediators help participants create the solution that will satisfy them by bringing a fresh and objective perspective to the situation and by encouraging new ways of communicating.
Benefits
In addition to avoiding lengthy court delays, excessive costs, and complex legal procedures, mediation is effective not only for resolving disputes, but also for preventing them. The process is also much more flexible than going to court because, rather than being required to apply the law strictly, participants can create a customized solution that addresses their needs and concerns. In short, as long as public order rules and everyone's rights and freedoms are respected, mediation gives participants significant decision-making power over the outcome of their dispute.
Role of the mediator
While helping participants identify the key points of the conflict between them, CHABOT lawyer-mediators promote dialogue and the exchange of information while respecting everyone involved. In a collaborative spirit, our mediators guide the parties in creating a solution that suits them by taking into account each person's opinions, needs, and expectations. They make sure, in particular, that participants have been able to express themselves freely and are satisfied with the outcome reached through the discussion.
Our mediators are not there to make decisions for you, but rather to provide objective and relevant resources to help you reach a solution that satisfies you while respecting the law.
Confidentiality
Statements made and documents shared or signed during mediation are strictly confidential and cannot be reused as evidence before a court. This measure is intended to encourage open discussion and create an atmosphere of trust and transparency in which everyone feels comfortable speaking freely.
Voluntary process
Mediation is a strictly voluntary process, which means no one can be forced to participate. Anyone who chooses to take part in a mediation session does so of their own free will and always retains the right to withdraw consent if they no longer wish to continue.
Code of conduct for mediation
Once all participants have voluntarily agreed to take part in mediation sessions, a code of conduct must be followed to ensure the process runs smoothly and remains constructive for everyone. In particular, participants must:
- Act in good faith
- Communicate transparently while remaining courteous
- Show respect toward the mediator and the other participants
- Collaborate and actively engage in finding a solution
- Listen attentively when it is not their turn to speak
Everyone benefits from following these rules, as they promote the development of a solution in a calm atmosphere and through healthy cooperation among participants.
Is suggesting mediation to the other party a sign of weakness?
A common misconception is that the person who suggests trying to resolve a dispute through mediation is implicitly admitting that their position is weak or that they are unable to defend it in court. That is not the case. Since 2016, the Civil Code of Procedure of Quebec has even made it mandatory to consider dispute prevention and resolution methods, such as mediation, before starting legal proceedings. It is therefore entirely normal and essential to consider mediation before going to court.
Moreover, inviting the other party to collaborate in mediation shows nothing more than a sincere desire to cooperate, avoid the burdens of court for everyone involved, and reach a solution that is even better suited to the individuals concerned. Taking the initiative does not suggest that your claims are illegitimate or legally unfounded. On the contrary, extending a hand in good faith reflects a thoughtful and constructive approach undertaken with everyone's interests in mind.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is subsidized family mediation?
The legal process involved in a divorce can be very costly. Fortunately, mediation can significantly reduce costs by encouraging the parties to reach an agreement rather than going to court. The mediator can support them throughout the process by providing neutral and impartial information and guiding them during their discussions. The mediator can also handle the various legal procedures required to finalize the divorce.
This method of reaching an agreement is strongly encouraged by the government, which offers subsidies for mediation sessions.
Who is eligible for the 2.5-hour subsidized mediation session?
Couples who are already divorced and are seeking a modification of the terms of their divorce decree;
Couples who are already separated and are seeking a modification of the terms of their separation decree;
Couples who have lived as common-law spouses with dependent children and are seeking a modification of the terms of their separation decree;
What should we do if we need more sessions?
Additional sessions may be held at the regulated hourly rate of $110.
This service is also available to couples without children, but without government funding.
How is child support calculated for a minor child?
Child support may also be paid to an adult child if the child remains a dependent (for example, if the child is a full-time student).
The amount is determined based on:
- The child’s budget and level of independence
- The child’s education and residence
- The child’s personal income
*Child support is tax-exempt. The paying parent cannot deduct it from their income, and the receiving parent is not taxed on the amounts received.
*To get an idea of the amount of child support to be paid, you can consult the child support calculation form at the following address:
If you have any questions, you can contact Revenu Québec at 1-800-387-1194
Who is eligible for the 5-hour subsidized mediation?
Married couples with one or more dependent children, in the event of a divorce or separation;
Couples living as common-law partners (cohabiting) with one or more dependent children, in the event of a separation;
Does the subsidized program cover legal proceedings?
No. The government program does not include taking your case to court.
However, for a flat fee, CHABOT Mediators & Attorneys can prepare all the necessary documents for a petition for legal separation or divorce.
What is child support?
In the event of separation or divorce, the parent who provides for the couple’s child is entitled to receive child support from the other parent, in order to fairly distribute the parents’ income based on where the child resides.
Parental obligations arise solely from the birth of a child. Thus, parents must ensure the child’s well-being regardless of the marital ties that bind them. This means that a parent, whether married or not, may be required to pay child support.
Child support is established for the benefit of a child, whether a minor or an adult, and is paid monthly to the parent who has custody of the child.
A claim on behalf of a minor child may be filed by the holder of parental authority, the child’s guardian, or any other person who has custody of the child. A claim on behalf of an adult child may be filed by the child or by the parent who partially supports the adult child who is unable to provide for their own livelihood.
How is child support calculated for an adult child?
Child support may also be paid to an adult child if the child remains a dependent (for example, if the child is a full-time student).
The amount is determined based on:
- The child’s budget and level of independence
- The child’s education and residence
- The child’s personal income
*Child support is tax-exempt. The paying parent cannot deduct it from their income, and the receiving parent is not taxed on the amounts received.
*To get an idea of the amount of child support to be paid, you can consult the child support calculation form at the following address:
If you have any questions, you can contact Revenu Québec at 1-800-387-1194.